He: I need some space to think darling.
She: Why do you need space, am I bothering you?
He: No its just I have to much pressure at work and need some time to readjust.
She: Well let me in on your troubles darling, I told you I would be there for you!
He: Baby, Its just that I need space, please don’t get me wrong.
She: Is there someone else in your life? Is there? please tell me, you have been acting strange lately. I knew my friends told me this was too good to be true.
He: What on earth are you talking about?
She: You know what Im talking about, so tell me.
He: Please understand me, I have no time for this BS of yours, I am really tired and Im gonna hang up now.
She: Go ahead run away from our conversations, Hang up in my face like you always do.
He: I always do that? when did I do that? why are you whining when I am in this state of mind, leave me alone!
She: There you said it, Leave me alone… I knew it, you always were hiding something from me. What did I do to deserve this?
He: Look, enough of this talk that is leading us nowhere, I have no time for this, please leave me alone now.
She: And now you have no time for me? and you want me to leave you alone? have it your way, goodbye.
He: You know what… Goodbye.
She: That easy you sell me cheap! That is how our love ends? Oh My God! you men are so predictable. Just get lost! one day you will miss me. BYE!
He: Whatever.
If only we could have a referee, a real referee that could ask us if we need a time out? and actually place us on hold, until we come to our senses.
If only we listen and accept the others point of view before its too late. If only boys and girls learn to play along.If only we stop listening and start hearing the others persons hidden messages.
Hidden signals are everywhere, every minute, in every move, some are vibrant and some are just that, hidden. You need to stop, collaborate & Listen.
Two ears & one mouth just about says it all.
Mamdooh Al-Radadi
me@mamdoohalradadi.com
October 19th, 2009 at 11:20 pm
agree and -strange its always HER fault in UR stories:)
October 20th, 2009 at 9:15 am
I think you should re-read my stories and you will find a simple answer to your finger pointing, I never take sides to any sex. The same way I live my life, all my life, thanks for the input Dilana.
October 21st, 2009 at 5:35 am
I would just say If u need space join NASA baby! Now instead of us asking for the space it’s the guys turn. (3ajabi)
there used to be men in this earth…what happened?
But in all I am so impressed with your blog, i never new you were such good writer, it became an addiction to open your web side to see what’s new.
good luck.
October 21st, 2009 at 11:06 am
lol, Thank you for your kind words.HAhahahaaa I love the NASA part, very funny indeed, I guess that would cool things down
October 25th, 2009 at 7:46 am
Him: I’ve had some pressure lately, work, adjusting, responsibilities…you know the drill.
Her: I can relate, is there anything I can do?
Him: No, I just need sometime alone.
Her: (silence)…………….
Him: Hello, are you still there?
Her: I feel we are distancing away with all this new adjustments. Are you sure you are alright? Is there something you want to talk about?
Him: Baby, I just need some space, dont get me wrong…..
Her: Ok, I’ll let you go back to whatever you were doing….
They both hang up……..both are wondering why was this conversation cold? They both don’t realize that each one of them have 1000 things on their minds but that doesn’t mean you neglect the important ones in your life….
She didn’t want to push, she didn’t want to come across as a nuisance…..
He didn’t feel like small talks, he didn’t want to push her away anymore she is feeling…..
We sometimes get so caught up in LIFE, we forget that without investing in the ones we love there is no LIFE….then we become unfulfilled, hallow, then it excels to bitterness…..finally we feel sorry for ourselves and go on how the world is not fair…….
True happiness lies in if your soulmate is someone who understands you first, if he/she does love comes so naturally………..
Peace…..
October 28th, 2009 at 2:06 pm
WOW Manal, amazing dialogue…simply wonderfully said and placed, you should start to write…maybe give me a run for my money :-0 loved it. Thank you for sharing.