Every day you wake up to news. Every day you encounter people. Everyday you find something new, or old, digest or remove. Every day people mingle, get attracted or scattered from you. Every day you smile, frown, think, decide, millions of decisions, some you know you take, others are left to your sophisticated auto pilot.

The messenger comes with a message in a bottle, or wrapped up in leather, or just plain spoken words. A messenger today can reveal his message from his body language or his attitude with you. If he was revealing that you are to be his higher rank he would bow to you while delivering the message. On the other hand if he was carrying your demotion, his body would look relaxed and somewhat showing you who’s boss and how higher up the ladder he is from you, remember that’s the messenger were talking about.

Messages are almost always welcomed with joy and a hidden eagerness to reveal its contents as if its christmas time and your presents are awaiting your smiles. Some however hold surprises that are not welcomed. Some messages send our blood pressure out of the roof, others drop it to sub zero levels. Messengers carry the good, the bad and the evil, in many cases evil disguised as friendly chit chat.

Beware the evil messengers that only seem to deliver pieces of information that only cause pain or negative vibes. They manage to infiltrate your security walls undercover as friends, because we know what we do to negative and bad friends, we block them and never have to worry about receiving bad news as and when it happens, it can always wait, or forever die in their hands and mouths.

These evil, selfish, sick minds seem to shy away on your success and jump in joy on your downhill rides. This is how they satisfy their high jealousy levels that cause them to die from high blood pressure mixed with a heavy dose of any sickness they may spread. They need to breath, they need to let off steam, they need to dilute your systems, they need to poion your positive and healthy thinking, they need to throw that wet blanket all over you so you slow down in life.

Please take a moment and segregate your friends today, you can be any age, it does not matter at all. Think of the very few that seem to make you jump to the phone with a smile? Now think about the ones that make you utter hello as if your choking? the ones that make you smile, carry warm love and happiness with them and want to have a quick laugh with you and deliver some great news.

When the sick brains call you, the evil messengers, they carry what ever it is with them embedded inside it is some sort of bad, demoralizing, hurting, sad fact regarding you or something you like. These same lifeless forms of humans seem to anchor themselves in your daily life by providing some sort of social activity that you seek. They then start the sucking process.

The E.S.P.

Evil Sucking Process: A type os social vampire that lives among us and lives on positivity, in place of the positivity sucked out, an equal or higher level of negativity and bad feeling are injected into the poor victim. They manage to form colonies, but eventually fight over victims and die alone, sad, hopeless, deprived of a healthy life, devastated. Good always wins over evil, always, no matter what or who you are. Try keeping a real angry face for 2 hours straight, if your sick enough to try that…tell me how you feel now?

Examples of Evil messengers in action:

• “Hey Ahmed, I heard about your new promotion! congrats buddy!”( and then the punch line, the E.S.P) “ too bad they are relocating you to an empty part of the desert.( and you can actually hear the laughs in the background).
• “ Oh my God darling, your new nose job LOOKS undetectable! ( then the E.S.P) let’s hope the girls don’t either, cause then it would be a big waste of your summer money.( here she double whammed her, showing total hatred 1- the girls part. 2- The summer part, that she can’t afford to join the girls this summer.)
• “ Hey susie, guess who I bumped into at the beach today? Your ex.. he was with his new fiance, and he was playing with her kid, so sweet of him. Anyway, what are you up to today?( no need to explain this one!)

I call this the little black dot on the perfect shirt syndrome, Forget the wonderful crisp  white shirt, focus on the little small light beige dot, only detected if you were looking real close under the lower button. They seem to learn how to focus on your weakest link, weakest point, weakest anything and forget your strong amazing features and wonderful personality, looks, success, fame…etc.

What you should do with these evil messengers is send them back with their heads in a box and a box carrying their bodies( that was back in the old days) now, to diffuse them you need certain personality traits and people management.

You need to not respond to their messages, just like a friend who bugs you with garbage messages, anything on his mobile is in yours, 24/7. Eventually when he sends a help! message you would have pressed that IGNORE FOREVER button.

• Send them mixed signals against what they feed on.
• Give them some bad information about something they like or someone they like, even go to the extent of making up things.
• Poker face them.
• Make fun of their stories, always tell them that what they deliver simply sucks.
• Tell them people are talking about them in a negative way, that they are no longer welcome in their social circle anymore due to the gloom effect they carry.
• Tell them when they call straight up” please if its bad news please call later, not now”.
• Play their own game on them for a while, turn the tables.

You remember that old children saying” Sticks & Stones may hurt me, but words will never break me” well thats exactly it, stay strong in the face of evil.

When people come to me with information I already know, and they know it just kind of hurts me, I am sure they will be sent back wondering what happened, Im good at that now, I used to be a victim you see, just like you. Segregate the good from the evil, keep some bad just for fun, you can’t have a group without a negative, bad, evil person in it. You need to pick on someone.

People write negatives things, cause they feel that’s what sells. Good news to them, doesn’t sell. Michael Jackson

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