D-VORCE!
A look, a stare, a rare yet lovely snare, he likes her, likewise, they take the next step. They chat, they sms, they take it to the phone, they talk, they walk, they want to learn more.
They teach each other, about one another, learning more each day, trying to get what the stakes are, they give, they receive unconditional love, the warmth, the tenderness, the emotional eruptional forces are at play, they take shelter in one another, dreams unite, the gates of love are opened, the walls torn down, borders removed, its love at its peak.
United as one, a combination of two rare breeds, talk is two way, emotions surround them, new unfelt emotions massage the soul, what could this never ending sensation be?, could it be happening to me he thinks? Am I deeply madly in love she questions her mind?, an unknown deep voice reassures the sensational vibrations, signed, sealed, delivered, we are together.
The familiarities of everyday marriage ceremonies are forgotten in a blink of an eye, cinderella’s magical night has passed by all too fast, her childhood knight inshining armor has traveled through no mans land, crossed valleys and slayed the dragon and removed the beasts heart for hers, the cry of a newborn baby girl shatters the silence, a shaking young handsome man runs in to check on the condition of his princess and gods most amazing creation, as he runs in something takes control of his emotions, where should he turn to, his beloved darling or that little angel barely breathing?, he holds his wife’s hands and asks her how she is, needs more confirmations and screams at the doctor” how is she? she looks pale? “she is fine my son, congratulations, you are now a father”, a tear starts to form in his tired eyes, both families rush in, Love is in the air.
The years come and go, relationships grow, ships at at sea are lost, wars started and ended abruptly, history is in the making, the little angel has a little brother now, they go everywhere together, even the bathroom its her responsibility you see, “this is my little brother” she brags to people she meets, trips around the world are the norm, Disney..been there done that the children boast, but what about mom and dad?, still in love, only a grander kind of love, the one that comes from living in each other, he’s been promoted, and the financials are fine, she works and has made it to the top of the corporate ladder, a smart girl she is, he believed in her you see, unlike the other shallow guys, he knows the true meanings of success in people, all’s well that ends well, we all have dreams.
Here comes reality knocking on the door, you see not all people can handle the heat, especially when it comes full blast and from all angles, as I said before, this creature called marriage does not come with a operation manual, what about a guarantee, not even that!
Its a sad thing to have to be typing the sad twist this fantasy land story has, with all that love and passion what could go wrong, you see its that wrong exit they took on their route, the one that spells DANGER in any language, actually its a universal sign, understood by all cultures, only known to the few that travelled that road before
and came back with reality splattered all over their faces, but hold on, is it one sign or many, no one dares to identify all those devilish signs, fearing the curse that strangles the beholder, slowly, gradually bringing him to his knees, D-Vorce. I respect my avid and mixed culture readers, therefore i shall leave the reasoning for the couple to have ended it this way to you.
Here’s a hint for you to get started: Culture, Friends, Family, Education, Jealousy, Unfaithfulness, Giving up, Economy, Wrong reasons to get married, Shallow
thinking, Experience, Greed, Escaping reality, No clue, Counseling, Spices, Hidden Agendas, In-Laws, Freedom, Past experience, Judging others, Looking down on capabilities, Gossip, Exaggeration, Criteria, Trust, Faith, Long Term.
The End.
7 Tips for better communication Allah Yikfeena Shar Al-Di7ik( Allah have mercy on our laughter)