A Few Good Men
Whenever you ask a girl of the guys these days, she say’s they’re all taken. Where did all the good guys go? are there any left? are they really taken like hot cakes from a shelve? did they exist in the first place?
Well let me tell you this young ladies who seek these good, great, lovable, enjoyable, incredible, wonderful, joyful young men. They are out there, hiding in some sort of camouflage to protect themselves from the devilish females out there. They are hiding not because they are weak, far from that, they are watching the ever so changing atmosphere that you creatures create. They know you will never stop your continuous evolution, they only need to see a pattern to jump on your band wagon. To spot them is an easy thing, to catch them before they transform into an ugly daily male hormone, is the tough part.
Men are different than women in many ways, but they share the same feelings and love, and breathe the same air you breathe, they consider steady relationships, but can’t seem to find a person that deserves their love and feelings.
For it is you females, that have hurt him time and time again, you cannot and will not say that you are all angels. Nothing is worst than a woman on a backslash adventure to cause as many casualties as she possibly can. Women who take revenge on innocent passerby’s are many and not a few. They will rip a mans heart out and throw it to the dogs in a blink of an eye when on a rampage. They tend to think of Me and forget the poor guy who is in for a ride of his life. What did he do to you? was it him that destroyed your dreams and shattered your sweet feelings? was he the one that dumped you for that younger hotter sex maniac? was he the one that never said I love you when you needed it most? was he the one that broke every promise in the house? now tell me this, is he the one that took her words and recycled yours? was he the one that played the same songs he sang to you on your birthday? “what have I done to deserve this sighed the broken heart man? did she not notice all my characteristics that I thought would be loved by any soul mate?”
Let me scream at the top of my voice dearest lady of my personal beliefs and feelings for you. It is for you to know, and them to find out, even if you do know how great and lovable I am.My only concern is by the time you realize these fine and unique pure things that make me, it would be too late for you to get yours, I will move on, and on till I find my final destination. While you you hunt me down in all the wrong places, I will be enjoying every breath she takes, and you will be right when you say” all the good ones are taken”.
I love to love and be loved, I seek harmony and peace in our souls.I never meant to hurt a living creature, let alone you, I have a heart so big it could carry 10 of you and still lighten your day. I have more love than all those books and movies that touched you and made you cry.I am me. I can brighten your day and days that turn into month’s and years for as far out as you can imagine. I never ever left my childhood fantasies, I am not gay, I am a real male with emotions, I do hear love songs like you girls from time to time, and put a poker face with friends. I pour out my heart and cry a river, I can feel deep into you, I can be there, I will be there, I need the recognition and support just like you do. I need to be pampered and spoiled, soft spoken to, caressed, laughed at and told time and time again how handsome I am. I too have feelings, feelings that if utilized move mountains. I know of a far away place where I can take you and contain you, secluded areas of green and blue and a shining sun are my idea of fun. I need to be understood, believed, trusted, forgiven time and time again. When I decide it is you, I need to test you, just like you do,I need to understand you, I need to be digested in whole, not pieces and patches from your wild imagination. I need to be yours and yours alone, you should contain my inner child, you need to play me, surrender to me in whole, not half with me and the other half with your past! I need to have more of you than you can give.
I will return the favor by drowning you with my tsunamic love waves. I shine when you are with me and I know you are mine, I am a male, I protect by nature, I love at night by instinct sometimes extending the hours to the early morning. My morning desires are endless and natural. My touches are from deep inside, my kisses are so tender and I know it. My breathes down your neck will send shivers down your spine, I will caress every part of you with immaculate attention to the finest details. I always show off my possessions, yes possessions for I am yours and you are mine. I love it when your eyes shine in harmony, and when the sun shines on you and shows me those details I tend to miss every waking hour, I rush you back home for a one on one session of intensive personal devious intensions. You see miss know it all woman, I do have what you are looking for. You complain of hurt and bad men roaming this great big earth of ours, and forget the fact that I could be right there under your command waiting in vain. Why does it have to be me to take the blow and never complain, we are a humble few, that seek happiness and love.
When I was young at heart and innocent, I took the blow and tumbled for many years of my young age. The hurt seems to never go, just like a bad experience, it leaves scars in our deepest tissues only apparent to a few.
Just like it takes me forever to find that special woman of my dreams, sweat some more to find me. Do me a favor, stop complaining and start looking in the right places.
Every coin has two faces.
Mamdooh Al-radadi
me@mamdoohalradadi.com
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Ouch! Where to find my soul mate. It is of the main goals to any human being to find a worthwhile long term relationship. There are plenty of resources out there on how to sustain a relation or end one..etc. but never on how to find love, though it is deep need for each one of us regardless of our etchant , education , income …
But do we need to allocate a candidate then force our selves into falling in love? Or should love finds you?
Well there are no relationship development lessons out there in which we can take, the only way to find out is through trial and error. After a couple of heartbreaks, it is easy to believe that old saying (“all the good men are taken”). Maybe to comfort our selves. Or do we say “all the good men are taken” since they are from Mars and we are from Venus. How likely it is to find a straight emotional guy for an example? Did not you noticed how difficult it is to allocate something when you really need it? I guess that women most of the time do create very detailed images of the one to be, that is why it is really hard to find a match for all those measures. That if the measure were realistic in the first place, which could be also another derive for that saying.
I have never believed in Mr. Right, but I believe there are a couple of right guys for me. Since I have only would require minimum essentials measures in the one to be (my must have list is very short, yet complicated). Should a woman settle to minimum qualities in a male partner to increase the candidates pool size.
Should I prepare a must have in a partner list, and check against it ever single guy I meet for scores? Then should I roughly discuss my future plans (desires, needs, expectations) and views about life with the high scorers? Should I get attached to the first one who passes this check?
I am trying to overcome my love to this Mr. not right for me, but why did I fall in love with him in the first place. Am I insecure about my self, too afraid to end up alone, trying to seek self acceptance, thought that I can not find a better one to love me , is it cause I belived that love should find me not vice versa or is it all?
I only wish if I could find the answers in a book, to spare myslef the pain.
Finally, yeah I would have to agree with you that we should act upon but not complain in life for any matter. Great article!